Ten years after divorce 95 women who participated in an earlier study of divorce were asked to reflect on their lives since their divorce. They were mailed a questionnaire to describe demographic data, self-esteem, control, life assessment, and their lives since divorce. Fewer than half remarried and of those who did, 10 divorced a second time. Slightly more women partnered than married. Their overall assessment of their lives was reported positively. However, 25% felt the same or worse than they had 10 years earlier. Income was the only demographic variable correlated with self-esteem, control, and life assessment. Women used a variety of self-care actions to improve their lives and only six women went to professional therapy. Their lives and some of the actions taken are described.